Earl's Corner
Stop, Look and Listen
When I was in school it was important to me to gain the acceptance of my friends.
I wasn't extremely athletic or talented, but I was funny. I recall entertaining
classmates and, often, being rudely interrupted by my teachers. They would inform
me that I wasn't being funny. I looked around at my classmates and they were
laughing. I was funny.
Our disruptive students are often telling us something about themselves or their
situation. Very few students leave their homes in the morning with the intent
of getting into trouble at school. Spontaneous reactions, poorly thought-out
responses or following a dare will lead many students into disfavor with their
teachers. If we take the time to analyze the event instead of reacting to the
student's response, we may gain greater insight on how best to turn the event
in our favor. It requires us to Stop, Look and Listen.
Although, it may be difficult to allow a period of time to pass before we act
or react to certain events, we minimize overreactions and give less credence to
what might have been the student's intent. To allow this passage of time requires
us to Stop ourselves from giving the student what might be our first reaction. If we take
the time to Look at the event, we gain a greater understanding of why the student may have performed
or misbehaved the way they did. In the context of evaluating the event, it's
important to view the relevance of the student's response to the activity itself.
If we consider what might have occurred just prior to the disruptive behavior
of the student, it may tell us about the student's intent. It may give us a greater
understanding of how the structure of the current activity might have contributed
to the disruption.
Listening to the content of the disruptive behavior and listening to the response of the student's peers should shape our own responses to our
students. We tend to oversimplify the rationale for disruptive student behavior.
Often we attribute disruptive behavior to attention-seeking. While it is certainly
true that positive and negative attention may provide the rewards that some of
our students are seeking, it may be more important to Look at what responsibilities
we may share in providing an atmosphere where our students feel the need to be
disruptive.
Some of us class clowns don't need a reason and no structure will keep us from
disrupting a lesson. But if my teachers had taken more time to see who I was
as a person and not judge me by my behaviors, it would have reduced my need for
disruption. Our students who are disruptive created Make Your Day. They told
us that to be fair, reasonable, logical and predictable would reduce their need
to disrupt. They told us that giving them an opportunity to take credit for doing
their best work and not comparing them to others would reduce their need to disrupt.
Our students who are disruptive disrupt for a reason. Take the time to Stop. Take the time to Look. Take the time to Listen. We as teachers don't always need to find the answer. It may be more important
to find the question. Ask your students for their help. Don't seek to find blame.
Don't look to shame. And, don't worry about retribution.
Next month I'll discuss the importance of educating our parents and successful
strategies for developing support at home.
Cheryl's Two Cents
Cueing 101
Definition: 1) General - When a group of students transitions from one activity
to another, verbal and/or visual prompts are utilized to help students move from
one type of activity to another. 2) A reminder given to students who are fully
capable of following the expectations. (Examples - "Put the toy/cell phone/PDA
away." "Do that again and it'll get you to steps." "Stop _______ (fill in the
blank)." "What did I say?"
When is cueing appropriate and productive? When is cueing simply a short-cut
and counterproductive? First, let's look at cueing as a needed support. Kindergarteners
are initially in need of more reminders and prompts. There are students whose
IEP or 504 plan supports specific cues or prompts because of educational need
and the team determines a specific schedule or set of cues that will support that
student. General cues such as "Clap when you hear me," flashing the lights, ringing
a bell, etc. are often needed when students are moving from one type of activity
to another.
How do we know when we've moved beyond appropriate cues? When we've established
criteria or set expectations and we are certain that each student understands,
then cues or reminders are simply an intervention that students are not expecting. Let's
look at an example: I say to the class, "If you're interested in earning points,
the expectation is to work on AR. Raise your hand if you need help. Questions?
You may begin." Dayja blurts out, "What are we doing?" I know that Dayja is
fully capable of understanding and following directions. If I say to Dayja, "What
did I say about raising your hand?" that would be cueing that is counterproductive.
What might be the ramifications of what I just did?
Short-Term Effect
Long-Term Effect
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I've added an unexpected intervention, creating an unpredictable environment.
How many times am I going to remind Dayja to not talk out before I allow her to
go to Step 1?
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Dayja's self-esteem is impacted because the subtext of the cue is that I don't
have the expectation that she is capable of raising her hand for help.
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Other students will see that I am not consistent in following through so I've
lost credibility.
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When students say that I'm unfair, they are right because I do not consistently
follow through with consequences; therefore, I choose when they go to steps.
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The unwanted behavior will repeat.
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Dayja maintains an external locus of control.
If we would like a classroom in which students are consistently on-task, then
we need to provide a consistent, predictable environment. Cueing (aka reminding)
does not create a consistent, predictable environment. Cueing forces us to micro-manage
rather than allowing students to learn from their mistakes. Wouldn't we rather
have our students make those little mistakes with us so we can help them learn
that actions have consequences. At a regional training this summer, we were having
a discussion about cueing. One of the mentor teachers told the group about an
article she had read some years back. It stated that 90% of the prison population
has an external locus of control, they had never developed the ability to manage
themselves.
Let's go back to Dayja. When she blurted out, she was simply saying, "Can I
have a bit of time away from the current activity." When I allow her to go to
Step 1, my message to her is that I have the expectation that she has the ability
to learn how to manage her behavior. What I always keep in my mind are the following
questions:
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Does the student have the ability to meet the expectation?
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Would it be fair if I didn't follow through?
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And, most importantly, if I don't help this student learn how to self-manage
now, what is their adult life going to be like?
Once I've answered these questions, I have no choice but to follow through -
for the benefit of the student.
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MYD Conference
Arizona
Sep 15-16, 2006
Interested in attending the Make Your Day conference in Arizona?
Staff in need of training? Regional trainings will begin in July.
Kudos to Wenatchee School District
for providing MYD resources
to all staff - at all times.
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